Being an aligned mama means embracing change when it happens and being present in the little moments when things are standing still.
It’s a funny thing, isn’t it? The realization that everything seems to change and yet, simultaneously, stays the same. As mothers, we often find ourselves caught between these two worlds—the constant evolution of our children and the Groundhog Day-like routine of our daily lives.
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Living Groundhog Day
It’s in the ordinary moments that we discover the true beauty of life.
The simple acts of going for ice cream, taking a walk in the park, or cuddling on the couch with our children are what life is really about.
These moments of connection, love, and intimacy shape our relationships with our children and contribute to their growth and development.
It’s not about the grand gestures or the big impact we think we need to make; it’s about being fully present in those micro-moments that truly matter.
So, when we find ourselves trapped in the monotony of our daily routines, questioning the purpose of it all, remember that you’re we’re alone.
These feelings are totally normal and they come and go, just like waves. It’s important to allow ourselves to acknowledge and experience them fully.
By embracing change and the ebb and flow of our emotions, we can break free from the urge to bury them deep within ourselves.
Be Present In Every Moment
Sometimes we feel ‘mom guilt’ when we don’t cherish every single moment with our children. We love them more than anything, but that doesn’t mean we don’t get tired or crave peace and quiet every now and then. It’s normal to experience these emotions. By recognizing and accepting them, we create space for growth and self-awareness.
Life often seems to stay the same from one day to the next, yet within that apparent stability, there are countless micro-moments of transformation.
Our children are in a perpetual state of growth, constantly discovering their likes and dislikes, developing their unique personalities, and asserting their independence.
From being reliant on us for meals to learning to feed themselves, from having us pick out their clothes to asserting their own style, their journey to becoming self-sufficient individuals is a series of constant changes.
We Are The Models
As aligned mamas, we play an important role in this process. We model kindness and love and how we respond to unexpected situations. We have the power to choose our reactions to be aligned with the moms we want to be. Of course, being a mama is not without its challenges. It’s not all cupcakes and rainbows, despite what we may see on Instagram. It’s a choice—a choice we make every day to show up, to love, and to embrace our unique path.
We make An Impact
Just like any other relationship in our lives, motherhood requires daily commitment. We choose to love our children each day, to be present, and to nurture their growth. And within that commitment lies the power to shape their lives, their characters, and ultimately, the future. The impact we have on the world doesn’t come from grand gestures but from the choices we make in our everyday lives.
We don’t need a massive following or societal validation to make a difference. Our impact begins at home, within our families. By working on ourselves, by being present and authentic, we set an example for our children. We show them that it’s okay to be themselves, embrace change, and navigate life’s ups and downs with grace.
Change Is Constant
So, even on the days when it feels like you’re living the same day over and over again – when tantrums and battles over brushing teeth become the norm, remember that everything is in motion. Change is constant, and feelings flow. As aligned mamas, we can lean into those feelings. We can allow them to guide us and teach our children that change is a natural part of life.
Embrace the discomfort that comes with transformation, because in those moments that we grow. By creating a safe space for ourselves and our families, we show our children resilience and adaptability. We learn to appreciate the beauty of change, the unknown opportunities it brings, and the immense strength it builds within us.
Conclusion: Embracing Change
Motherhood is an incredible journey—one filled with countless moments that shape who we are and who our children become. So, let’s choose to be present, make micro-choices that align with our values, and embrace change. We can create a ripple effect that reaches far beyond what we can see. This will leave a lasting impact on our children, our communities, and the world at large.